This Way to Happiness!

Other people's opinion about you does not have to become your reality. Those who follow the crowd usually get lost in it. I don't know the key to success but one key to failure is trying to please everyone.

So why waste your time thinking about what others think? Instead, follow and do what makes you happy.

3 Stages of Life

TEENS. You have all the time and energy but no money.
WORKING. You have the money and energy but no time.
OLDIES. You have the time and money but no energy.

Lesson: Enjoy life and all the things you have at the moment because you can't have everything ALL AT ONCE.

'Do You Really Love Me?' Top Answers

'Do You Really Love Me?'
You should know the answer to that.

'Do You Really Love Me?'
Yes. But not as much as when we first met.

'Do You Really Love Me?'
'Til the day after forever.

'Do You Really Love Me?'
If this is not love, then what is?

'Do You Really Love Me?'
Wait. I thought its just a one not stand?

'Do You Really Love Me?'
Shut up... and take-off that wedding gown... NOW.

'Do You Really Love Me?'
Define love? :p

TOP ANSWER
'Do You Really Love Me?'
After you cheated 5 times... After you left me twice... After you used my credit card to buy gifts for your flings... I'm still here, what do you think? :( (Ouch!)

World of Superficial

In the midst of all superficial flirting and lies, I still staunchly believe in honesty and good ole get-to-know-you-conversation. I really do!

It's Little Things Like That

Say 'That coat is expensive, but it suits you' rather than 'That coat suits you, but it's expensive'.

Mind Over Matter

I do not care what gadget you own, where you live. If you know someone who knows someone who knows someone. If your clothes are this year's cutting edge. If your trust fund is unlimited. If you are A-list B-list or never heard of you list.

I only care about the words that flutter in your mind. 'Coz they are the only thing you truly own. The only thing I choose to remember you by.

I will not fall in love with your bones and skin. Neither on the place you have been. I will not fall in love with anything but the words that flutter from your extraordinary mind.

Corinthians 13

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Half-Full Half-Empty

Half-Full. I am the worst person like you, in the same manner that you are the best person like me.

Half-Empty. Not all things you cannot understand is a lie and not all things you could understand is a fact.

With Pleasing Personality Please!

This world is really superficial, I just confirmed. People wanted people who are as beautiful as Jessica Alba or loving a person just because he break dance. But just like a cool breeze, it just passes by and after you realize all are gone... but what you commonly miss out is the source of everything that stays no matter what, the air.

My point is, I go for character instead, that is, people with pleasing personality, with good intentions and with pure heart. Choosing one out of many parameters of a pleasing personality, usually physical aspect, is a shallow investment. 5 years, 15 years or 30 years later, these heartthrobs will smell like curry and look like prata but the heart of good intentions never die. Believe me.

Good Morning World

This morning a friend of mine asked me, why I choose to be a morning person. I replied, simply because I want to extend my life a little bit longer than what the nature has been set for me.

Shakespeare in Love

You never choose falling in-love. Its a matter of gravitational pull that you can't say UP if you really are falling. And if you are brave enough to accept the risks of happiness or sadness, whichever the future may offer,don't blame your heart if you fell out of place. If you are good enough in anatomy, your heart only beats to send oxygen-rich blood through all parts of your body so that it can function properly. Now, if you're blaming your brain cell as it dies alone, you are still wrong because you have two braincells, the other one kills the other. Remember, happiness is measured on how you accepted reality and not by blaming your heart, your brain, your lungs, your pancreas even your sex organ. Just accept the fact, that your life is your own responsibility. Life is about taking risks.

Lifeaholics, it is better to fail in trying than to succeed by doing nothing.

Sometime in Fall

I think that perhaps we always fall in love the very first time we see the person of our dreams, even though, at the time, reason may be telling otherwise, and we may fight against that instinct, hoping against hope that we won't win, until there comes a point when we allow ourselves to be vanquished by our feelings.

The time of that fall contained every worthwhile moment I had ever lived.

Dump NOT On Me

Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they look for a place to dump it. And if you let them, they'll dump it on you. So when someone wants to dump on you, don't take it personally. Just smile, wave and wish them well, and move on. Believe me, you'll be happier.

The mark of your success is how quickly you can refocus on what's important in your life.